After I got home with only fog light on, I run some test, I checked all the connection was good, I checked hid relay harness,far right top pin off relay has constant 12v, I disconnect the hid connector and plug old headlight bulb back on, no light at all, I turn the high beam on and off I can hear relay clicking dunno it's high/low beam relay or headlight relay, so one of those two factory relay must working, going to check the fuse 40&41 tomorrow and relay, still can't rule out defect @ headlight
and I do shoot headlight revolution an email, hopefully I can fix it tomorrow