I agree that the Rancho/SOA is the best bang for the buck.... however, I'm less concerned about that than hearing the bang when my front differential goes because it's such a cute, tiny, little thing.
I don't haul trailers, and 400 lbs of SAR volunteers really doesn't make much difference to spring rate (never mind the time I made a very portly friend walk when I was hanging up in the snow) because all of the other gear I haul, I haul all the time so it's within the calculations.
4 bar rear is a better solution because it allows great articulation while also allowing you to keep power to the ground. Also, I plan on making a new gas tank that fits where it should have been all along - where the muffler is... that also will give me at least a 30 gallon capacity
For the front, I think doing a front a-arm swap from a 2007 up truck with coil overs will do great things for increased travel.. also, it will allow me 7" of lift so I can run 38s. As for the rear axle, the 8.6 is a lot stronger than most think - so it'll get better axles, but that's about it. The front will probably get a reverse cut 44 or 9" Ford. I'll maintain the H3 axle lengths and 28 spline axles because with cryogenic treating, I can get 20% more strength - which puts me into the dana 60 area of strength. I'll also get more bullet proof cv joints (thus, if I break one, I can buy an off-the-shelf CV to get me home).