I had the same issues with my i5, not enough power for my liking. The 3 makes so much commotion to get top to speed, and 50-80mph was a nightmare on 35s.
Other things you can do: stock-size lighter weight tires, no aftermarket wheels (stick to your 16" alloys).
After an aggressive PCM tune, Borla catback and a header installation, my 3s performance improved noticeably only at higher RPM, shaved 1 second off my 0-60. But by then it sounded like a jet. If you want power, you'll need an Alpha, V8 swap or the i5 supercharger... which costs as much as an Alpha upgrade.
No replacement for displacement (or something) - Good luck!